What do you think are the reasons of your success, happiness, failures and misfortunes in life? Is it the result of doings of people around you or the result of your own doings? If you succeed in your chosen area of profession, where will you attribute that success? If you have (or having) a happy and contented life, is it because of other people’s dictation? If you met failures and misfortunes in whatever your endeavors are, is it a result of actions of people around you?
For me the answer to the questions above are all NO.
Why? Because all that are happening in your life are the effect and RESULT of the way we think and deal things around us. It’s how we reacted towards events that we met in this journey.
It is unfair to blame other people every negative (even positive ones) that comes along our way.
We are (ourselves)is the very reason of all these whys and hows in our lives. We are the one who is accountable for every single turn-out of whatever reactions we do in whatever activity. We have to face and accept the fact that no one’s accountable except OURSELVES.
Maybe people around us are only contributory factors that made effects and results come earlier than expected. As the saying goes,”we reap what we sow”.