My goal now which I never did perfectly is to forgive anybody in advance. That is a state I am never in. To have so much forgiveness and love no matter what people do to me. When people insult me, talk about me behind my back or get in my way, I used to react and it bothers me for months. It lead me to nights, weeks, months or even weeks of sleepless nights. I’ve learned that this has nothing to offer to myself but distress.
My goal now is to accept that we really cannot please everybody however good is our intention. People always has something bad to say about you. Much more, people seem to be happy when you are affected to their actions. Whatever you do, good or bad, people will always have something negative to say about you and that’s life.
So the key to these people is to shrugged your shoulders off and forgive them immediately. Forgiveness is a feeling you can offer as well prayers for them.