There is a danger that their relationship as father and daughter will be ruined. He was very sad and don’t know what to do. He doesn’t even know how to handle the situation because according to him, this is their very first time to be in such trouble.
My sympathy goes to him. And very deeply. Why?
Because I experienced the same years back. I told him to relax. And hope for the best to happen between them.
As a parent, I experienced the same and yes, it impaired me and shook my whole being for a while. I thought it was the end of that relationship. I really was upset that time. I was asking myself –where did I go wrong in nurturing them. I really didn’t know then, what to do and what to think. I was lost.
But then I realized, it was really not the end of the road for us. In the first place, I was their mother (and father) because I was separated from their father. I raise them on my own. So there was no reason for giving up. I had to stand in the ground where I was standing all these years. It was then that I decided to just let things go and wait what happens next. I was hoping (against hope actually)that all will turned out well and right. I love my children and my love for them has no boundaries. No beginning and has no end. I just said to myself-think positive and I kept my fingers cross for that.
I was right. Things just go right for us. We were back to each other’s arms after a week of silence and cold treatment. It just happened. No whys’ No ifs. No buts. No nothing.
Sometimes, we don’t have to be that concerned about problems coming our way and we should not treat them as great deal. Sometimes, it heals in itself. There are many things in this life that is hard to explain. There are things also that don’t need a single explaining.
Most of all, we are all just creatures in this world. Given by Him a sense of reasoning so we might as well use it. How? By understanding matters at hand beyond our senses. Every single thing happened has an explanation.