Sometimes, events in life occurs and we are fond of saying “whether we like it or not”. That things happened to us we cannot control of. But would you believe if I say that all things that come in your way is controllable?
Sometimes, it’s just that we don’t want to act on it on the opposite. Sometimes, we are carrying negative emotions which is the main reason why we don’t change to opposite direction. Sometimes, we are carried out by our adventurous emotion. Sometimes, we just do it for fun. Sometimes, the reason for not reversing this situation is actually trying yourself how would you react after out of curiosity without realizing what is it’s after effect. Sometimes, even if your brain does not agree with what your heart is directing you, you chose to act to the contrary or vice versa. Sometimes, you just do it with no reason at all and this is the worst reason there is.
In every decision we make in our everyday lives, we should be cautious. For decisions we make may make or break us as a person. We came into this life to live and enjoy it meaningfully. We are here not just to enjoy to give pleasure to ourselves but to give happiness to people around us as well. You just cannot say you don’t care people around you. That you don’t give other sentient existence a damn. It is not proper for us to behave such. After all, old adage proven to be true is that “no man is an island”. Yes, we cannot live all by our self. Now, what is life to you if you are alone? What is success if you have no one to offer it to? What is happiness if there is no one you can share it to? What is life if no one trusts you? What is love if there is no one you can extend it to? What is life if you keep on starting from scratch? What is life if you have no one to share it with? What is life if all your achievements be kept in no more than yourself? Can you figure this out?
We are all born and given the chance to enjoy life to share it with someone else, to everybody else without meting out hurt, pain, or sufferings, enough reason why we are given decades or even almost a century not just to enjoy life but to give hope and love to every blood-and-flesh beings out there.
Yet things happened beyond our control however control we may attempt, you reasoned out. Those things happened precisely for reasons. It could be a lesson for you to learn. It could be an eye-opener. It could be a warning for future untoward occurrence. It could be a sign. That is if we attempt to control.
So what if no effort is exerted? And you are the one who willingly did it? What do you call this? It is purely an intentional act. You do it consciously. In totality, you are the one responsible whatever consequences you will be facing through. And by this behavior, you will perhaps suffer the way you made sufferings to others. For what goes around, comes around.
What I am trying you to figure out here is about cheating on a relationship.