Sometimes life just mess us around no matter how you are working excellently for it. Sometimes, loving and being considerate to the most important person in your life just don’t work however you show compassion to them. Sometimes, people keep ignoring on how you feel. Sometimes, the very person you loved the most is the one who took you for granted. This is because, sometimes you mean nothing to someone who means everything to you. They just can’t appreciate your very presence. They don’t try to care no matter how much you care.
Sometimes, it is hard to accept that the someone we care and loved about significantly just doesn’t care and loved us as much as we do or the same thing as we do. They tend not to give importance to our sympathies. Not even thinking our attachments to them.
There are also instances where the caring and loving you gave to someone is answered at specific time depending on their moods and frame of mind which you will never know. The someone you cared and loved will let his feelings display for a time, just for a time and, alas that feeling your someone is showing would disappear at a time you least imagined for you to defend yourself or at least the chance to fight and have a fair play. Sometimes this situation occurs at a time you least expected which apparently, you’ll be caught dead on.
So sometimes too, when we find ourselves in this situation, we should start thinking and considering of ourselves for, who will loved and care ourselves except our self, isn’t it? We must above all, love and care our self cause no one will. As such, we must think about of letting our feelings go particularly when we think we have done everything we could have. If all efforts has been figured out but only gets denial and refusal, it’s high time, we should think of our self. We should learn to let go our feelings for that someone not because we weren’t good enough for them. It’s just that they weren’t good enough to give importance as to your value and worth.
And this is exactly the best time to let go of that someone to give our self the chance of being self-motivated and explore what’s in store ahead of us. There’s always sunshine behind and after the storm.