Hurting people is so easy to people who are insensitive. Aside from being insensitive, they are the kind of people who don’t give a damn how people will be affected by the manners they are behaving. They are also the kind of people who are self-centered. It doesn’t matter to these people whoever will be hurt by their acts. What matters to them is that they feel and expressed at any rate their worldly satisfaction which they mistakenly called love.
But what is love really as compared to what I call worldly satisfaction or delusion? How does a person being in love behave? Does he go wild to have his love? Does he goes out of his way to satisfy his emotion called love? Does he need to go out of his way just to get hold of his loved one? Does he have to put all things aside just to be with his loved one especially his family? My answer to this question is a big YES. He will do all the things listed above (in the sense that this person is not on his own mind).
As you can see, emotions especially love or compassion understands all things or even beyond explanation of any living creature on earth. When you feel you are in love, the whole world seems to be always smiling at you. The sun seems to shine everyday without any night or darkness. If this emotion is within you, time flies swiftly and all things around seems to be bright and breezy. Everything seems light and full of colours which make the person in love to feel his life very comfortable and stress-free and everything around him. Everything around you is soothing and serene. So if this is your atmosphere, how do you think your mind works?
But what happens if this emotion which he mistakenly called love is a form of delusion or worldly satisfaction? Well his normal reaction will be he will be doing by all means to satisfy this emotion. This is a kind of emotion wherein you forget all about who you are, what you are and how you are and just aim to get hold of the person you mistakenly felt you are in love with. This is a dangerous state because whatever action you will be taking will be with you for the rest of your life. If you turn your back after realizing that what you have done was wrong, rectification will be hard. First to the people whom you have failed. If ever this rectification stage will come, no one will be willing to extend any assistance or support because you forsake them when you were at the time of your delusion. You will find yourself alone and wounded. Worst, you will have to start from the scratch to prove that you are worthy once again of their attention and trust. So, if this the case, you will live your life starting from scratch time after time. Is this how you will get through the life given to you by HIM, a precious gift to humankind?
The moral lesson in here is to try to be sensitive to all the people around you whatever decisions you will come up. You are not alone. You have a family. You have your circle of friends. Consider all the people around you before leaping over into actions which might bring you to a hell-like life. Always have a second thought on any decision especially if this decision would mean a lifetime one.