We started with so much difficulties because your family and mine did not approve the relationship we had. We both confronted straight forwardly the conflicts then. We agreed to be together no matter what. And that agreement produces one Lex. Five months after Lex’s birth, your family and mine has softened their treatment to the three of us which lead to the acceptance of both parties completely including my three kids from first marriage which made the situation more pleasant and contented.
We had our own share of husband-and-wife conflict but we settled it capably. There were times that third parties were involved which I thought were the most intense but just like any other conflicts we had, we always resolved those in a conciliatory way. We hadn’t been engaged in any heavy arguments then. We had that seemingly unspoken and mutual understanding in resolving problems by sitting down until the issue is fixed. Seldom when issues were not agreed upon the moment we sit down at it.
This was the most part of our relationship I deeply appreciated. I thought relationships like this do not exist. You have proven me that it does. Can I ask for more? Not anything.
Currently, we are again confronted by an issue which almost keep us apart. Once again, a third party is involved and this is your greatest weakness, I admit. This is because of your being friendly and warm to opposite sex which is often interpreted wrong. Wherein you yourself mistakenly thought that you are falling with this person too. There are more reasons why you have gotten into this, this time. Somehow, this experience shook us both. And the whole family have taken their share this time. There was no way they will not know. This experience even made our only daughter almost despise you. It was a shameless and damaging encounter for her. Your family living in the United States of America even lifted a hand for the first time to mend and bring us three altogether.
Thanks to God and to the whole family’s effort, it made you change your lost mind. By this, we will start once again the family we raised for one hundred and forty four months exactly today.