After my first marriage did not work however I tried saving it, I thought that this was it. After I had separated with my first husband,the thought of getting involved with another man seems impossible considering the miseries I had went through. I actually said enough for these men. If this world was meant for them to rule so let them be. I will live mine without them. Anyway, I had always believed that I can live without a man in my life. I had my three daughters so why bother. That was when I hadn’t met my second man. Of course, at first I did not consider the relationship with this man a serious one. It was sort of revenge to let him suffer the way I had suffered with my ex.
But how can I when he did his best to proved I was wrong. That things do change. For the better. It happened not so smooth. There were also ups and downs with my relationship to this man. First, it was my children who did not approve with the relation due to many reasons and hated me. Second, his relatives also felt the same.(Double the hate my children has given me!) Third, me and myself kept on arguing whether to go or not to go on with this relationship. I had many reasons too why and I called it inside conflict. It was sort of me-and-me-against-the-world situation. Not until when I got a child from this man. This child was a blessing because all of a sudden things changed, as what he had said. They had accepted our relation, though superficial (at first) . As of now, we are a happy big family. With my three daughters (from my first marriage) and one from this man I am with now. We all learned to accept what is in front of us. Grateful am I because the man I am talking to has a strong determination to maintain the relation not only between us but to my children as well.
We are now on our 137th months on being together and….counting happily! Praise to HIM….